Time for love? The only effective way to find happiness in a relationship.

In today's world, more people suffer from loneliness. Everyone wants to find a happy family and love, but it can be very few.

People worry about this, after all happy family - indeed perhaps the most important component of a fulfilling life. Someone - is simply out of desperation - enters into a marriage with a partner who has at least some good qualities, it is very far from ideal, which he dreamed. Initially, both understand that nothing good will come of it.

But - we think - and plunge into the abyss originally unhappy marriage, and then for a long time torment themselves and their children. So, what actually prevents people today find happiness in family life, and as generally meet his love ? Let's look at what must be guided by people at different stages of relationship building.

To love someone, that someone must first be met. In order to meet the need to still make some effort. The film industry feeds us with stories of random twists of fate, heroes invariably lead to happiness to the grave.

We begin in this naive to believe and no attempt to acquire the love. In life, it also happens that "love is accidentally come unexpectedly ... ", but it is often necessary to make the most in this process part.

Why can not I get married?

On the topic of marriage written numerous articles and books. They set out a 1000 and a way to do it simpler, easier and faster. Some tips do work and some do not. And most important - it helps it not for everyone.

Someone comes easily, this science, someone has a very weak spots over which to work on. But to get started is to realize that it takes. Consider the details. To safely get married , it is desirable : to be able to attract the attention necessary to you men, to be able to build lasting relationships with them positively and be willing to take the family to have it, get a marriage proposal.

So why at some point there was a hitch? Why can not I get the ball rolling? It's all about intro personal conflict - a regression into the unconscious, playing the so-called "parent scenario." Intro personal conflict - a state in which a person has a contradictory and mutually exclusive motivations, values ​​and goals with which it currently can not handle, can not establish priorities behavior.